Customizing Your Referral Strategy
Earning referrals can be difficult. It’s tough to approach people and ask them to market your product or services for you – which, in essence, is exactly what want people to do when you ask them to make a referral.
One of the problems I find, especially amongst new salespersons, is that most people have a “canned” idea of how they want their networking conversations and referral meetings to go.
What a nightmare.
If no two people are alike, why would your approach to referrals and networking be the same from person to person? It shouldn’t be. You need to begin learning how to “shapeshift,” or adapt your personality to the person you’re speaking to.
You may be a fun-loving guy in the office, but what if Joe Smith is a strict “business only” type of guy on a tight schedule? Are you going to waste his time with a joke before you get to your point or will you simply thank him for fitting you into his busy schedule, make your pitch, and move on? My guess would be the latter. If you simply can’t adapt to a situation you may want to consider working with a marketing partner with a slightly different personality – that way you can work together in difficult situations.
The best way to customize your strategy is to learn about your prospect before you get together. Check his company website, learn about him as an individual person, and find out what time of day is best to reach him. The more amenable you are to his needs the more likely he’ll be to listen to the things you have to say.
Oh, and if you think customizing your referral strategy to gain prospects is a smart move – try this: customize the way you reach out to your prospects as well. They’re all individual and unique people, too!
Have a great weekend!
Sean










