When I first started out in business I found networking to be one of the most difficult parts of my job. I knew I needed to go out and meet other professionals as well as introduce myself to potential clients, but I was terrified of introducing myself to people I had never met before.
Unfortunately, you really have no choice when it comes to networking. That is, if you really want to become successful. This morning I pulled together a list of 5 networking tips. They’re great for anyone just starting out, but are particularly helpful to those who may feel a little shy about the process.
5. Start with People You Know
Networking doesn’t always mean approaching complete strangers. It’s perfectly acceptable to approach people you know – family, friends, coworkers – and talk about your career plans. They may be able to introduce you to people, making the transition even easier.
4. Don’t Be Sorry
When I first started out I always apologized for interrupting people, for taking up their time, or for asking questions. Little did I know these were not things I needed to feel sorry about. Not only that, but my constant apologies were not seen as polite but more as a sign of inexperience!
3. Never Be Afraid of Yourself
If you are a shy person you do not have to wake up in the morning and put on the face of an extrovert. Even though you may feel a little awkward or embarrassed, you’ll be yourself, which always displays an authentic intention. Those who try to pretend to be something they are not only come across as arrogant and don’t seem genuine.
2. Choose Comfortable Networking Locations
Networking doesn’t mean simply going to business functions. You can network anywhere you go, whether that means relaxing at the next local sports event, joining a book club, or taking a class at your local college. The point is to get out there and do things you enjoy. Conversation with others will follow naturally.
1. Prepare in Advance
It’s perfectly acceptable to prepare for social situations in advance, especially if speaking to someone new causes your palms to sweat and your tongue to ball up in a knot. Write down a list of ice-breaker questions you might ask someone you don’t know. Practice them in the mirror or in the car. Conversation doesn’t come naturally to anyone, and why wouldn’t you practice speaking just as you would any other skill that needed to be stronger?
Use your common sense and you’ll get through your first networking experience – and the second, and the third – with great results. The more you get out there and try, the easier networking will become!
Good luck at your next networking event!
Sean
Sean McPheat